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So Sad To See The Sacred Defamed

Posted by Carrie on January 13, 2021 at 10:35 PM

It is with a heavy heart that I have to disable comments on our blog section.

This was a place where we could share our thoughts of encouragement, enlightenment, enhancement and empowerment.


Instead we had the lawless defame our sacred space with unholy messages and posts. 

Rather than continue to subject us to that deviousness, I have disabled all comments.

If you would like to share a post or comment, please message us and we will review and add as a BLOG ENTRY if appropriate.

To those lawless individuals who walk in desecration, know that God is not mocked!  Whatsoever a man (gender-irrelevant) sows, plants, puts out, sends out, does....that shall he also reap, receive, have rebounded and returned to him (gender-irrelevant) manifold times. 

Harvest time is upon you! 

Isuggest you repent!!!!

Stand on this instruction and Believe God...


Shalom Beloved


Hold Your Peace

Posted by Carrie on August 23, 2020 at 1:20 AM

There has been a recent trend where preachers have been admonishing the body not to respond to negative talk, but to remain silent.

I heard the admonition spoken during a Bible Study session when the teacher spoke of holding her peace in school and later on her job although viscious rumors and flat-out lies were being told about her.

Within hours, I received notice of a video by Evangelist Perry Stone being posted requesting prayer for the attacks coming his way that God was not allowing him to respond to.

This was followed up when I sat down to watch Christian Television and Pastor TD Jakes spoke about it on TBN in an interview with Matt and Laurie Crouch.

And then I was led in Scripture to these verses: 

1Peter 2:20-23 (NIV)  

20 But how is it to your credit if you receive a beating for doing wrong and endure it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God. 21 To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps. 22 “He committed no sin, and no deceit was found in his mouth.”

23 When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly.

So I'd like to say to those of us who are enduring the assasination of our character and the defaming of our name, keep silent! Let the JUST JUDGE vindicate us! What better answer could there be than the one HE gives!

Proverbs 3:5-6 (NLT)

5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. 6 Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.

Stand on this instruction and Believe God...

Shalom Beloved

I Am Allowed To Grieve

Posted by Carrie on July 29, 2019 at 12:20 AM

Today was a difficult day!

I awoke with the intent to prepare for service and join my Hubby in worship. He had to rush out before me and I was left with my thoughts. Suddenly it dawned on me where I was going and what day it was!

Let me give you a little backdrop to the day. In the past few months we have had several passing of family members and friends. In the past 5 days, we have celebrated two homegoings at this particular house of worship, a family member and a close friend. My feelings are already erratic, but in check. Then it hits me like a ton of bricks. This day to the day 3 years ago I went to this same house of worship to say my final goodbyes to my mother and best friend. Like a torrent, my emotions burst through and I found myself paralyzed with grief. I sat down in almost a stupor as tears flooded my cheeks, my mind went silent, and I could only sit and stare.

I was still sitting there in tears when my husband returned home. Not wanting to distress him further, I retreated to my home office and sat down at my desk. My hand moved like an automaton and launched one of my devotional websites….Our Daily Bread. Can I tell you that in the midst of your discombobulation, GOD is there! My eyes glanced toward the bottom of the page and there it was…a link…the book “Life After Loss, Grieving with Hope”! Praise God!

Just reading the introduction brought comfort to me! You might say, what’s my problem? It’s been 3 years! But this day I realize I have been so focused on being ‘strong’ for my Dad, for my Daughter, for my Uncles, Cousins, etc., etc., etc., I had not allowed myself to fully grieve. I certainly couldn’t allow my spiritual family to see my hurt. I had to keep moving forward! Well guess what! I was stagnant and didn’t even realize it! I thank GOD for speaking to me, calling me to acknowledge where I am and showing Himself as the GOD OF ALL COMFORT in the midst of my pain.

Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort; Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God. 2Co 1:3-4 KJV

Okay, the reason for this post is that maybe someone reading it felt as I did and never allowed themselves to fully grieve. Maybe you feel guilty for hurting, especially if you believe the one you are grieving for has made known their decision to follow Christ Jesus and their suffering is over. I want to let you know that you are not alone. GOD will comfort you! And you are allowed to grieve!

You can find the link to a free download of the book below. I haven’t finished it yet! So I can’t critique it for you. Check it out for yourself and see what GOD speaks to you!


Support Christian Films

Posted by Carrie on

There's a new Christian film being released in theaters on August 28, 2015 called WAR ROOM!

Tickets are now available to purchase in advance.  Let's show our support of these types of films in the mainstream by flooding the theaters on August 28th.  Here's a preview of what appears to be an excellent project....

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